What is a REAL man?

Not once in your life you were told “Act like a man!“… But did you ever wondered what it takes  to be a real man? What is the thin line between male instinct and self control?

How can men consciously express their masculinity without becoming cold or closed-hearted on the one hand… or wimpy and emasculated on the other?

This is the most difficult part to understand. Once you really get it down, you will have no problems with women.

If you ask them, 999 out of 1,000 women will say that they are waiting for “the Man.” Still, the concept itself is very vague. A girl will “feel” when she is with a “Man,” but that doesn’t help you too much, does it? In order to understand it from our viewpoint, we will look at genetics again.

Women are acceptors, while men are donors.

An acceptor can choose whether to accept what the donor gives or not. Hot girls are spoiled by the numerous unconditional offers they get and usually reject them flatly.

They love to remind us that it’s they who choose. But this is not ALWAYS the case. A hot woman will meet many average Joes every day. Of course, she could select any of them if she wanted. But what she craves is a real Man. And here’s the twist: That Man is not a real Man for her alone, but for all other women as well.

He has qualities to which all girls will respond. It’s wired inside them. He is now the one in the position of power. So, in the end, she will have to do the dirty work and seduce him. Women don’t spend hours in front of the mirror just to be sure that they look their best, but also to ensure that when a real Man comes, he notices them.

And this is how an ideal seduction looks. The man CHOOSES first. He expresses his interest in the woman through his attentions. If he is POWERFUL enough, the woman will like him. But she will also know that he has CHOICES, so she will try to seduce the Man and tame him to stay with her.

So what do I mean by “powerful”? Looks, money, fame or influence? None of the above. These are just external qualities that can trick a woman into feeling that you are powerful. True power comes from the inside. A real Man will make her feel like a woman just by his presence. Even if he is naked and without his money, car and clothes, his power radiates from within.

Back to evolution, the most important thing to show your woman is that she can feel safe with you. The Man has to be POWERFUL enough to LEAD her. But, if you are in a restaurant and she is the one who has to choose the table where you sit, then has to order the food while listening to you say, “You are soooo beautiful. I don’t deserve such a beauty,” what will she think? Is this man capable of protecting her? Does she feel safe with him? No.

So the No. 1 quality a Man has is the ability to lead.

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